The path to living a happy and succesful life is actually simple. Not easy, but simple.
Then there are people who are so complicated it makes those who live around them, toxic and unhappy.
You become like the 5 people you spend most of your time with. Gotta be aware my friend.
If you find yourself around such people, walking away is the best thing you can do. Otherwise you tend to get involved in their vicious circle of drama, lies and negativity.
Complications are usually created because of wrong motives coupled with relatively loose morals.
You don’t like someone but you use them because they do your chores for you, you go around with someone who is already in a committed relationship with someone else, you go around telling lies just because you want people to think you are cool or popular, all red flags folks.
Drama free life is a dream for most of the people I live around and it’s a very important one. :p
Complicated people can make your life toxic and if you cannot really help or change them, it’s best to walk away. I learnt this the hard way.
Think over it once. Do let me know what you guys think.
Lots of love,
Brown girl on a budget 🙂
You are so right
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I’m glad you found it relatable! Thanks❤❤
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I am dedicated to keeping my life open and simple. I avoid drama in my family…gotten better at this. Thanks for your post.
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I’m glad you liked it! Thanks for reading❤❤
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True. But how do we know if we ourselves are complicated?
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I think, you know it when u feel tired all the time, unproductive.. unhappy or dissatisfied. In short , the negative feelings stirring inside you. Or simply, you might find yourself being entrapped in unimportant dramas, to say the least.
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You’re right. So the question becomes: how to simplify and stay simple and excuse yourself (and others) when we slip into complicated thinking and drama. Follow the Red Road! 🙂
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Been there before. It made me a loser until I got rid of those people.
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I’m glad you stood up for yourself. We must walk away from things which make us anything but happy. Thanks for reading! ❤
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I can relate to most of the things you have written. Thanks for shedding light and giving practical advices.
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Thankyouu!! That’s the thing, all I write about is my own personal experiences. It teaches a lottttta things!
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Wow that’s great! Your ideas are awesome!
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❤ thanks!
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