Toxic.

Not all relationships are created equal. Some can last for the longest time and still be difficult. Some can be there in your life just for a few months and no matter how much time has passed or irrespective of efforts you make, these ones always stay put.

But what do we do when the super long epic relationship which lasted a lifetime gets out of hand, negative and turns toxic?

Of course you cannot just let it go. There are so many memories, emotions and time which was invested. It is tremendously painful and frustrating.

I guess all we can do is keep calm and hope the other person won’t give up on you so easily. 🙁

Silent treatment is just wrong. You gotta let it out and let the other person know how you feel.

And.Stop. Overthinking. Because people who really want you in their life will make an effort to keep you no matter what.

Stay with the people who are good for your mental health.

Who make you feel loved. Because that and so much more is what you deserve.

And finally, “don’t hold on to a mistake just because you spent a lot of time making it.”

Lots of love,

Brown girl on a budget 🙂