Tomorrow would have been the 4th anniversary or whatever of my first and only past relationship or whatever.
Time is a funny thing you know?
These anniversary dates and all didn’t mean very much to me back in the day , because i thought of it as a milestone we’re crossing with many many big ones to go ahead.
Somewhere along the lines things we grew apart. And today scrolling through in my phone I came across this date, our date and memories.
There’s no real need to get dramatic though right? If it was perfect it would still be going on.
But I’m hating this process. Of moving on. I’m fed up of all the effort and emotions it’s taking for me to get past it. And even today, once in a while, the time comes when I cannot hold it together and I cannot think about anything else but come running back to you that instant.
Guess it’s just a bad day huh?
Here is a bunch of things I think would help if anyone of us is in this situation-
1. Watch funny TV shows
2. Spend time with your family and friends
3. Eat something fantastic
4. Trust the process
5. Cry it all out. Yeah!! go crazy. It’s therapeutic.
6. Don’t sit alone .
7. Do not think and overthink about it. You will just make it into a bigger mess than it is.
And know that tomorrow will be a better and a happier day!!! Lots of love
– brown girl on a budget