We are our most stringent critic. We should be.
But at times give yourself a break and remind yourself that you are doing the best you can. Everyone is.
If you are strictly criticizing yourself, you have to make sure you love yourself for your gifts equally, maybe even more.
Because while constantly bashing yourself over one single flaw, you tend to forget how amazing you really are.
This mostly happens due to perfect body image or a ideal beautiful face which everyone seems to be chasing after.
The result of this is comparing. Constant comparison.
Man she looked so hot in that tank top and shorts. I could never pull that off. Never.
And then the spirals of negative thoughts begin, eventually leading you to feel like shit about yourself.
Sweetheart, everyone is different.
You have to believe the fact that you are irreplaceable and amazing and all things great. Because if you don’t, then no one else ever will.
Read the quote from that picture above. Read it twice.
And love yourself upto the point that none other opinions matter.
Lots of love,
Brown girl on a budget 🙂